25. The Results Formula

Today's episode we want to develop a clear vision of where you want to go and create a strategic plan to get there. Some of the questions we have to asks ourselves are the following:

We can create the vision, but how do we bring it into reality? 

How do you actually go from imagining what you would love to actually bringing it into reality?

How do you create the results in your life that are in alignment with your vision?

We talk about:

• How do you create the results in your life that are in alignment with your vision?
• The Science of Getting Rich
• Actual commitment is demonstrated with action.
• Commitment as part of the results formula
• If you want to change your results, to change your life, and live by design, pulled by your vision
• Thoughts create your feelings and feelings drive your actions. Your feelings are your fuel and your actions create your results.

Featured on today's episode:

Mama’s and Papa’s song

Wallace Waddle

William H. Murray

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 📍You're listening to The Success Minded Woman with Deidrea Kiesling, Episode 25.

 In last week's episode, we talked all about creating a vision for your life, living your life by design instead of by default, a life by design is setting the intention of the life that you would love in the four domains of life. Health and well being, love and relationships, vocation and creative expression, and time and money freedom.

Creating the vision of what you would love to have in your life, setting big goals and dreams and achieving them. How would you like to be in your life? How would you like to feel in your life? What would you be doing in your life? Where would you be going and who would you be spending your time with?

Who would you like to become? Have what you want to have and give what you want to give, creating full spectrum wealth. That is creating the vision for your life. And in last week's episode, I talked a lot more about how to actually get clarity and create the vision. And this week, we're going to talk about how to make it happen.

I love this line from a mamas and papas song. And they say go where you want to go and do what you want to do with whoever you want to do it with. I know my singing is awful, but I love that song. And it's such a great representation of. The good life of the vision, right? Of doing what we want to do.

I think it's a good summary of what we all would love or at least part of the vision. And it's so funny. Yesterday I was having a vision strategy call with a new client and she said almost the exact same thing when I asked her to describe her vision of in the domain of time and money freedom. And she said, and quote, this is what she said.

I want to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. And I think that's a perfect representation of what I think we would all love in time and money freedom. And I would add to that list really that we all want to be able to give what we want either in time or money or both to churches, nonprofits, and other organizations that are really doing the work in the world that we want to support or even family members or friends who maybe need some financial support from time to time.

I love the fact that we all can create this vision of the life that we would love living. We can create the vision, but how do we bring it into reality? How do you actually go from imagining what you would love to actually bringing it into reality?

How do you create the results in your life that are in alignment with your vision? And that is what we're talking about today. Wallace Waddle says in the book, The Science of Getting Rich, which I have been studying all year. He says this, he says a lot of things, but this is one that really resonates and I think about it daily.

He says this," By thought, the thing you want is brought to you by action you receive it". Let me say that again. By thought, the thing you want is brought to you by action you receive it. Everything in your vision, all your dreams and goals, are on the other side of action. That is how all results are created, and that is how you receive. I love this quote.

I might have said it before on another podcast, but it's definitely one of my favorite ones. And it's such a good representation of what we're talking about today. William H. Murray was a mountaineer who led the first team to summit Mount Everest. And he wrote a book about his experience. And there is this famous quote from the book.

And he says this, " Until one is committed. There is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always in effectiveness, concerning all acts of initiative and creation. There is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans, that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too".

All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events, issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings, and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. So how to commit? A lot of us can say we are committed, but it's actual commitment is demonstrated with action.

And this is part of the results formula, the formula for achieving results in your life. And it's always working. You are always creating results in your life. If you want to change your results, to change your life, and live by design, pulled by your vision, instead of living by default, reacting to life as it comes, having big dreams and goals but not creating them in your life, then you must Understand and learn to implement this results formula on purpose with intention because this formula works all the time, no matter what.

And if you don't have the results you want in any part of your life, then you are not using the results formula to So what is the results formula? The results formula is that your feelings. Your emotions drive your actions. The results you have in your life today are a perfect reflection of your awareness in these areas.

So to your awareness is to start understanding The pattern that creates our results. The results formula. And the formula begins like this. Thoughts cause feelings. Your thoughts cause your feelings. And you know this. How do you feel when you think you've lost your wallet? Your heart races with fear.

How do you feel when you realize it's in your pocket? You relax with relief. When you think joyful thoughts, you feel happy. When you think scary thoughts, You feel scared and anxious, your heart beats faster. When you think of all the things left to do and how you think there's not enough time to do them, you feel stressed and overwhelmed.

And when you think about what you've accomplished and what you're capable of, you feel more confident.  These thoughts affect your physiology and by universal law. Your feelings are expressed with your action. So try this out. Put on the physical posture and facial expression of someone who is sad and discouraged.

Most of us will scrunch our shoulders, our head down, maybe even put our face in our hands. Now shake that out, and this time put on a body position of someone who is confident, happy, and just had a major success. You probably have your shoulders back, your arms out, a huge smile on your face. We all know this. We know that we can change, that our physiology changes by the thoughts and feelings that we're having.

So you can see that our feelings are expressed in our actions. When we feel confident, we feel energized. And we take different actions than we would if we feel down. and frustrated or sad. And we know that our actions contribute to our results. It's simply the law of cause and effect. So follow me here.

Your thoughts cause your feelings and your feelings cause your actions and your actions cause your results. But most people don't get this. Most people look at their results, their circumstances, situations, and conditions. And they call those their causes.

See if you've said some of these becauses. I can't start a new business because I'm too Or I don't have enough information. Or because I could lose my benefits. can't take time off because I don't have the money. Or because I don't have the vacation time or because my boss won't let me. I can't find the love of my life because I'm not young enough, thin enough, attractive enough.

I can't… Put whatever you can put in there because this is what we think. We think we can't do something, have something, be something because of something in our external environment. But the true cause of all of results is your thinking. It's your thoughts. Your results are caused by what you have been thinking.

And this is the first cause because the truth is you don't get to not think you're always thinking and you can choose your thoughts or you can let your old habitual thoughts you've been thinking run your life. It's up to you, but how you apply the results formula to your life, you have to start with your thinking.

And if you want to know what you've been thinking. Look at your results in your life right now, because results never lie. And if we want to create new results in our life, then we must pay attention to our thoughts. Your thoughts create your feelings and feelings drive your actions. Your feelings are your fuel and your actions create your results.

And because it's our feelings that drive our action, it's so important to notice your feelings, notice your thoughts, and then decide how you want to think and feel that will fuel the actions that are needed to get the result you want.  personality and he can be some people he rubs some people the wrong way, but underneath his kind of charismatic personality.

He has a lot of truth and wisdom. So for those of you who don't know, he is a billionaire real estate investor, entrepreneur, and he does a lot of entrepreneurial training and has built a lot of different businesses with. He has a whole 10x, I don't know what I'm saying, like group of companies that do all kinds of things.

He has a 10x studio. He has 10x stages. He has a 10x business incubator. He has all these 10x health. So he has all these divisions of his 10x business, which is motto is that we should all have the capability to 10 X our goals and our dreams. And I love this quote by him. And he says this success is your duty, obligation, and responsibility.

Never lower your target, increase your actions, and you have to begin it by taking action. Your vision is what fuels your imagination and your dreams. But it's your action that creates your results. You might be thinking right now, that's great, but now what? So you might be thinking, so what do I do now?

What action should I take? And that's where a lot of us get stuck. We get stuck in the, I don't know. I don't know what to do. I don't know where to start. I don't know who to talk to. I don't know, I don't know enough to get started. That is where a lot of us get stuck and why we don't take action and why we don't get the results that we want.

We get stuck in this indecision, I heard someone say once, the miserable maybe. And what I want to help you with in next week is how to apply this results formula to get you the results that you want. So one thing is to understand this results formula. Which is working all the time. Your thoughts create your feelings drive your actions, and your actions create your results.

 But  it's in the applying of the results formula, not just the knowing of it, that creates the results. And so next week I'm going to share with you how to use the results formula to get what you want. Alright, thanks for listening and I will talk to y'all next week. Bye!